Bonjour, salut: greetings by time and register

One word for the whole day: bonjour

Bonjour is the greeting of the day – literally “good day” – and it works from the moment you get up until the evening, with anyone: a baker, a colleague, a stranger. French people say it far more than English speakers say hello: you say bonjour when you enter a shop, a lift or a waiting room, even to people you will never speak to again. Skipping it is what sounds rude, not saying it too often.

GreetingWhenTo whom
bonjourfrom morning until about 6 pmeveryone
bonsoirfrom the early evening oneveryone
salutany timefriends, family, young people
bonne nuitonly when someone goes to bedeveryone

Salut and bonsoir: the friend and the evening

Salut is the relaxed greeting between people who know each other, and it also means “bye” – the same word opens and closes a conversation with a friend. Do not use it with a shop assistant or your teacher: there, bonjour. Bonsoir takes over in the evening, roughly from six o’clock, and like bonjour it is for everyone. Bonne nuit is not a greeting at all: you only say it to someone who is about to sleep.

– Bonsoir, madame. – Bonsoir, monsieur.– Good evening, madam. – Good evening, sir.

Ça va ? – the question that is also the answer

After the greeting comes Ça va ? (“is it going?”), the everyday way to ask how someone is. The answer uses the same two words: Ça va, or ça va bien, très bien, pas mal. Then you return the question with et toi ? to a friend or et vous ? to someone you address formally. The whole exchange can be three words long: – Ça va ? – Ça va, et toi ?

AnswerMeaning
très bienvery well
ça vafine, OK
pas malnot bad
bofso-so (informal)

– Salut, Léa, ça va ? – Ça va bien, merci, et toi ?– Hi, Léa, how are you? – Fine, thanks, and you?

Saying goodbye: au revoir, à bientôt, à demain

Au revoir is the goodbye for everyone, at any hour. The little à phrases name the next meeting: à bientôt (see you soon), à demain (see you tomorrow), à plus (see you later, very informal, said “a pluss”). Merci and s’il vous plaît round off any exchange; de rien is the answer to merci. The polite trio to learn today: bonjour, s’il vous plaît, merci.

Merci beaucoup, madame. Au revoir et bonne journée !Thank you very much, madam. Goodbye and have a good day!

Words in this lesson

WordMeaningExample
bonjourhello, good dayBonjour, madame Martin !
Hello, Mrs Martin!
bonsoirgood eveningBonsoir, monsieur, une table pour deux ?
Good evening, sir, a table for two?
saluthi; bye (informal)Salut, Paul, tu vas bien ?
Hi, Paul, are you well?
bonne nuitgood night (at bedtime)Bonne nuit, les enfants !
Good night, children!
ça vafine, OK; how are you?Ça va, merci.
Fine, thanks.
très bienvery wellJe vais très bien aujourd’hui.
I am very well today.
pas malnot badPas mal, et toi ?
Not bad, and you?
au revoirgoodbyeAu revoir, à lundi !
Goodbye, see you on Monday!
à bientôtsee you soonMerci pour tout, à bientôt !
Thanks for everything, see you soon!
à demainsee you tomorrowBonne soirée, à demain.
Have a nice evening, see you tomorrow.
mercithank youMerci, c’est gentil.
Thank you, that is kind.
de rienyou’re welcome– Merci ! – De rien.
– Thanks! – You’re welcome.

Exercises

This lesson has 10 exercises in the app:

  • multiple choice: 3
  • match the pairs: 1
  • fill the gap: 2
  • build the sentence: 1
  • translate the sentence: 2
  • listen and type: 1

Try the first one

It is ten in the morning and you walk into a bakery. What do you say first?

  1. Bonjour
  2. Bonsoir
  3. Salut
  4. Bonne nuit

The answer, the other exercises, the audio and your progress are in the app – free at A0 and A1.